Your bridal journey is not a piece of cake, it isn’t just saying “I Do” but it will need lots of lots planning. And we mean LOTS. We can help you plan the ultimate bachelorette party too! Read why hosting your event with AvantStay is worth the penny!
Bachelorette Party vs. Bridal Shower
Alright party planners, let’s break down first the wild world of bridal celebrations! If you’re gearing up for a bachelorette party, it’s crucial to know the difference between a bridal shower—because these are two totally different vibes!
Bachelorette Party
- Purpose: The bride-to-be is ready to cut loose and enjoy her last fling before the ring! A bachelorette party is all about celebrating her fabulous single status with lots of giggles and maybe some naughty shenanigans!
- Attendees: This is a VIP event, so it’s typically just the bride’s closest gal pals! Think fun-loving friends who are ready to party it up, with no family members in sight (unless they’re super cool!).
- Activities: From wild nights out dancing until dawn to a relaxing spa day—there’s so much you can do! Scavenger hunts, cocktail making, or just lounging by the pool with colorful drinks in hand, the sky’s the limit!
- Tone: The vibe? Playful, hilarious, and a little cheeky! Get ready for inside jokes, wild stories, and maybe a few embarrassing moments that you’ll laugh about for years to come.
Bridal Shower
- Purpose: Now, switch gears to a bridal shower! This day is all about showering the bride with love, gifts, and wonderful advice as she prepares for her happily ever after.
- Attendees: This event has a broader guest list! We’re talking family, friends, and maybe even that neighbor who always brings over cookies (she better have a plate of cookies, just saying!).
- Activities: Think of games like “Guess the Wedding Cake Flavor” or “How Well Do You Know the Couple?” Alongside some tasty treats, heartfelt gifts, and advice that’ll make you tear up a bit!
- Tone: The atmosphere here is sweet and sentimental, but a sprinkle of laughter doesn’t hurt! It’s more about hugs and heartwarming speeches than party antics.
Whether it’s a wild night out or a heartfelt gathering, each celebration is a chance to make unforgettable memories with the bride-to-be! Join us as we count down the FIVE trendiest destinations to celebrate with your Bride’s Babes, with exciting themes to match if you haven’t planned that too yet.
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5. Austin, TX
Is it hot in here? Maybe, but that’s what makes Austin so lively. Pack your cowboy boots and get ready for a bachelorette bash like no other. With its laid-back charm and a hip, eclectic vibe, Austin is the perfect playground for a relaxed and playful celebration. From dancing the night away on 6th Street to savoring mouthwatering barbecue, Austin promises a weekend filled with good times, great tunes, and unforgettable memories for the bride-to-be and her crew.
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Disco Cowgirl Themed
Chances are after hours of enduring Wedding TikTok, you’ve heard of the theme, Disco Cowgirl: a fusion of boho-western fashion with a touch of that quintessential 70’s dance floor style. Saddle up your squad with cowgirl hats and fringe accessories, and encourage them to flaunt disco-worthy metallic outfits.
Where to stay: Ramsey by AvantStay
Giddyup girls, Ramsey’s got the cutest painted pool shed in an expansive backyard––ready for all your disco dance parties. It is your VIP pass to an intimate weekend of fun, food, and cherished memories. This contemporary home is a dreamy mix of relaxation and revelry—start your mornings sipping coffee at the breakfast bar, then lounge poolside before heading out for a wild night on Sixth Street. When you return, soothe your dancing feet in the jacuzzi, challenge the girls to a game of cornhole, and end the night cozied up around the fire pit.
Oh, and did we mention Austin’s legendary barbecue? Be prepared to eat like queens!
Western Themed
You don’t need to go over the top with this Western theme. Fine, you can grab a horseshoe cake topper, snag matching cowgirl hats for the crew, and get shot glasses with the words “giddy up,” but don’t be afraid to lean into the silly side of this theme. Check if anyone’s up for dressing with mustaches or cosplaying bounty hunters—it’s all about embracing the Old West.
Where to stay: Maverick by AvantStay
For a secluded yet stylish escape, Maverick is a four-bedroom sanctuary just outside the city that can sleep 10 of your girlies. This home is Western-worthy because of its wooden-paneled exteriors and its private, woodsy location. With a private pool, hot tub, and firepit lounge, Maverick sets the stage for ultimate relaxation between all the bachelorette adventures.
The game room with foosball, shuffleboard, and a balcony is perfect for fun nights with the girls, while the sleek kitchen and spacious dining areas make for epic group dinners before a night out.
4. Palm Springs, CA
You haven’t done the desert till you’ve done Palm Springs. This sun-soaked oasis nestled in the heart of California’s desert landscape is filled with classic boutique hotels designed for stylish pool parties with unparalleled views of the San Jacinto mountains. From rejuvenating spa experiences to vibrant nightlife on Palm Canyon Drive, this destination promises a chic and laid-back atmosphere, creating the ideal backdrop for a bachelorette weekend filled with sun and style—yes, please!
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Barbie Themed
One of the best parts of Palm Springs is the fact that there are multiple (yes, multiple) pink-themed hotels here. In our totally unbiased opinion, we happen to have two of the cutest—The Marley Hotel and The Wesley Hotel—just waiting for you and your crew of Barbie to post up by the pool. Book a few rooms or buy out the whole hotel. Pink stripes, palm trees, and poolside photoshoots are just a few clicks away!
Where to stay: The Marley Hotel
Pink is kind of this hotel’s thing. Bring on all the Barbie vibes. Why settle for a house when you could have an entire hotel? The Marley Hotel is Palm Springs’ hottest property, and it’s all yours for the weekend! This full hotel buyout lets you and your crew enjoy ultimate seclusion and luxury in style. With 6 rooms that accommodate up to 22 guests, you’ll have plenty of space to spread out and relax.
The Marley is perfect for a group that wants total privacy—no strangers, just you and your crew living the dream. You can elevate your stay with massages, yoga, and even catered meals!
Retro Themed
Let’s go “bach” in time. Experience the vintage charm by encouraging your party to don flapper dresses, polka dots, or poodle skirts. Perfect your playlist with classic tunes, play nostalgic games like pinning the tail on the donkey, and indulge in retro treats and cocktails for a celebration that’s as timeless and unforgettable as your girls.
Where to stay: Hotel El Cid by AvantStay
Meet the quintessential Palm Springs hotel. El Cid features pool cabanas and towering palm trees as far as the eye can see. For a laid-back yet luxurious bachelorette bash, chill by the pool, roast marshmallows around the fire pit, or sip cocktails under the cabanas.
The bungalow-style units exude a laid-back Cal-boho vibe; with 7 rooms that can accommodate up to 17 guests, you’ll have the whole place to yourselves and you’ll never have to worry about outsiders. From tacos to tasting menus, you’ll be well-fed and pampered too!
3. Fort Lauderdale, FL
White sand, turquoise waters, and all-night parties. Beach, please. Sun-soaked beaches, vibrant nightlife, and a relaxed coastal atmosphere—need we say more? A bachelorette party trip to Fort Lauderdale ensures days filled with seaside fun, from basking in the Florida sun to water activities along the Intracoastal. At night, energetic bars and clubs along Las Olas Boulevard come alive. And of course, be sure to take a day trip to Miami; it’s just a hop, skip, and jump away.
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Club Themed
You’re next door to the club capital of the country, so obviously this theme deserves a moment. Take your “I Do” crew to a Miami pool party, drag show, or get bottle service at an exclusive club (like Club Space). Reserve your table ahead of time to make sure they’ve got space for you and all that energy you’ll be bringing.
Where to stay: Sea Breeze by AvantStay
We honestly can’t think of a better place to decompress from the club. This home is steps away from the iconic Fort Lauderdale Beach and has room for up to 10 guests. Spend your days lounging on the sand, or hanging by your own private pool in the backyard. With a variety of yard games (think cornhole and bocce ball), a fire pit, and a BBQ grill, Sea Breeze is perfect for unwinding or gathering your group for coastal fun.
Downtown Fort Lauderdale’s best dining, shopping, and entertainment options are just a short drive away too!
Y2K Themed
Hop in babes, we’re taking a trip down memory lane. Dress your squad in coordinated Juicy sweatsuits, adorn your hair with playful butterfly clips, and decorate everything (literally, everything) with vivid neon hues. Opt for Lisa Frank-esque decor to enhance the nostalgia—because if Lisa Frank decor was meant to be anywhere, it’s in Southern Florida.
Where to stay: Beach Haven by AvantStay
Everything you could want for a laid-back yet luxurious bash is in Beach Haven. Just steps from the golden sands of the beach, wake up to the sound of the waves crashing and head straight to the shore. This stay comes with a private pool, hot tub, and a layout designed for groups.
With Hollywood and Miami just an hour away, the location is just perfect for a luxurious place to unwind with your besties while soaking in stunning beach views. Gather around the BBQ grill for a fun evening cookout, or sip cocktails on the sun-drenched patio as the day turns to night.
2. Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale is any trendy crew’s go-to spot for bridal-themed pool parties, rejuvenating spas, and a surprisingly vibrant arts scene. This destination sets the stage for laid-back celebrations under the AZ sun—think leisurely days by the pool, exploring trendy neighborhoods and embracing the city’s easygoing atmosphere. Pair that with an expansive vacation rental with a private pool, and you’re ready for your best bash yet.
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Final Fiesta Themed
As we said, Scottsdale is full of vibrancy and color. Match this town’s vibes by decking out your girlies in vibrant sombreros, matching tees, and festive accessories. From sipping margaritas by the pool to indulging in delicious tacos, a Final Fiesta-themed bachelorette ensures a tequila-filled weekend as you bid farewell to single life with a touch of spice and loads of fun.
Where to stay: La Casona by AvantStay
It doesn’t get much more vibrant than this Southwestern stay! La Casona is your dream destination for fiesta-themed, Spanish-inspired architecture, featuring a private pool and patio for al fresco dining. This hidden hacienda is a colorful, vibrant home best not just for relaxation but for a celebration of the bride-to-be.
With Camelback Mountain views as your backdrop, as the sun sets over the Arizona desert, gather around the fire pit for an unforgettable evening of s’mores, toasts, and laughter.
Desert Oasis Themed
The desert isn ’t all prickly pears and cacti—it’s got a plethora of spas and massages just calling your name, especially in Scottsdale. Celebrate the bride’s last single days with a Desert Oasis-themed party, where the crew takes turns getting massages, facials, manicures, and pedicures at one of this town’s many-day spas. Our favorite: Away Spa.
Where to stay: Element by AvantStay
Poolside fun, BBQs, and a cozy fire pit for sunset toasts––mmm, now that’s zen. Element is the perfect house for your girlies’ fun under the Arizona sun. A private oasis in the backyard where you can take a refreshing dip in the pool, soak up the sun on the loungers, or dine al fresco near the water is the best thing to do in your bash.
Just 20 minutes from Downtown Phoenix, it is perfectly positioned to enjoy all of Scottsdale’s world-class attractions for a long night ahead.
1. Nashville, TN
We may have saved the best bachelorette destination for last—but can you blame us? You were probably wondering what took us so long to get here, but alas. Enter, Nashville: the Honky Tonk capital of the world, with bustling bars on Broadway, numerous clubs from your favorite country singers, pedal bikes galore, and booze crews ready for you and yours.
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Last Rodeo Themed
Giddyup! It’s your Bride’s Last Ride and you’ve gotta do it big in the big city. Set up for this theme with matching cowboy boots, daisy dukes, white tank tops, and customized cowboy hats (we love these LED ones here). Book a booze cruise and let your tour guide handle the rest!
Where to stay: 121 Hotel by AvantStay
Book a few rooms or buy out the whole space. This Midtown hotel is decked with trendy rooms with plenty of space to get ready and even have some in-suite photoshoots. The 121 Hotel is Nashville’s swankiest and most flexible venue for your bride’s bash. With 16 bedrooms, including the Penthouse Suite that sleeps 58 guests-yes, 58 people, need no more to spread out! There is also a banquet room that offers space for up to 32 guests perfect for a bash party venue, so you can host a glamorous dinner before hitting the nightlife scene.
Expect tons of BBQ, live music, and, of course, dancing! And if you’re lucky, you’ll catch a Pedal Tavern ride by, full of people having an absolute blast (maybe you’ll even join them!).
Dolly Parton Themed
“Let’s go girls” takes on a whole new meaning with this theme. Just 200 miles from Dollywood, Nashville is the proper place to center your bachelorette party around the queen of country. Dress up as a different Dolly from each one of her albums and videos, and get ready to sing at the top of your lungs all night long.
Where to stay: Dolly by AvantStay
We couldn’t not call out our Dolly home here… you know? This stay has room for 12 and is right next to historic Germantown. Located just in the Buena Vista neighborhood, it puts your gals to Nashville’s best dining, shopping, and nightlife experience for your bride’s bash program. A night out with your best girls is something you will not want to miss as the famous Broadway street, lined with multi-level bars and live music, is just a stone’s throw away. Whether you’re dancing at the honky-tonks, sipping cocktails on a rooftop, or catching a show at the Ryman Auditorium, you’ll find yourself immersed in Nashville’s electric vibe.
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Popular Bachelorette Party Games and Icebreakers
Get ready to crank up the fun factor with these fabulous bachelorette party games and icebreakers you may want to add to your bachelorette plans!
These games and icebreakers will surely keep the party lively and make everyone engaged and gain lifetime memories. After all, who doesn’t want to leave the bachelorette party with a smile, a few giggles, and maybe a little blush from recalling those hilarious moments?
- Bachelorette Scavenger Hunt: Grab your squad and get ready for some hilarious photo ops! Create a list of fun challenges and tasks, like snapping a selfie with a stranger who has the same hairstyle as the bride or finding the funniest souvenir. Let those giggles out!
- Never Have I Ever: A classic for a reason! Share your wildest secrets with your besties. “Never have I ever eaten a whole pint of ice cream on a Friday night!” (Wait, is that just me?!) Sip your drinks accordingly—this game gets juicy!
- Bridal Bingo: Turn gift-giving into a game! Create bingo cards with wedding-related items like “floral arrangements” or “kitchen appliances.” Every time a guest mentions one, mark it off! First to bingo gets to shout “I do!” and maybe win a fun prize!
- Themed Photo Booth: Set up a photo booth with wacky props—think feather boas, giant sunglasses, and goofy hats! We all want you to capture some shameless selfies that will make for fab memories (and possibly some blackmail later)!
- Advice for the Bride: Gather everyone’s gems of wisdom! Each guest writes down a piece of advice for the bride and shares it. The result? Heartwarming moments and a good laugh, plus the bride gets a keepsake to treasure forever!
- Drink If…: Create a list of funny scenarios! “Drink if you’ve ever danced on a table!” We know everyone has been through this! This is a surefire way to get everyone laughing and sharing stories.
- Who Knows the Bride Best?: Let’s put your knowledge of the bride to the test! Prepare quirky questions about her favorite movies or crushes. The winner gets bragging rights—and maybe even a prize!
- Truth or Dare: A classic! Keep it light and playful, but be careful—things can get wild! Dares can be hilarious (or mildly embarrassing), so be prepared for some fun surprises!
- Memory Sharing: Asking guests to share their favorite or funniest memories with the bride could lead to some tearful laughter or a story so outrageous it could be a movie plot!
- Would You Rather: Bachelorette Edition: Think of crazy scenarios, like “Would you rather wear neon fuchsia on your wedding day or go to a public place in a matching tutu with the groom?” It’s all in good fun and guarantees some uproarious debates and lots of giggles!
Say ‘I Do’ to Fun on Your Bash!
Grab your glitter, get your squad together, and get ready to celebrate the bride’s one last rodeo! Cheers to the bride and all the fabulous adventures that await. We’re here to keep the laughs rolling and the drinks flowing.
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